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Psychological Counselling


Staying with Sadness without Sinking into It
Sadness can feel heavy, like the whole body is weighted down, and sometimes even a little frightening. Thoughts like " If I let myself feel this fully, will I get stuck?" c an bring fear. It is also common for guilt to surface - "Do I have a right to be sad about this? Many others have it worse". And there is often a little bossy voice inside our head telling us to pick ourselves up and stop complaining. It’s not surprising that we want o move away from sadness quickly—by d


Boundaries: Stay Close without Losing Yourself
Setting boundaries in relationships is not about pushing people away, but rather trying to feel less overwhelmed, resentful, and more empowered to make authentic choices. Boundaries are about staying connected without disappearing. Whether with your partner, parents, or children, boundaries make safe, respectful relationships possible. What Are Healthy Boundaries? Healthy boundaries mean being able to say no without feeling overwhelmed by guilt, or saying yes without later


Relationships - Noticing how we Meet Others
Have you noticed a recurring behavior in your relationships with similar difficulties repeating? Not knowing how to break this pattern can feel frustrating. These recurring dynamics are known as relational patterns; they can be understood as habitual ways of connecting and responding in relationships. These develop over time, often early in life, to protect us and keep us safe. Sometimes these strategies continue automatically, even when they no longer support us. Awareness a


Anxiety: a Message from your Body
Anxiety can feel like an overwhelming storm inside us, but what if it is a message from the body trying to communicate something important? Many people experience anxiety as a flood of racing thoughts or a sense of dread, yet the physical sensations that come with it hold clues to understanding and managing it better. Understanding Anxiety Through Body Sensations Anxiety is deeply rooted in the body. You might notice your heart pounding, muscles tightening, stomach churning,
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